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Team: Introduction

by Ron Potter January 3, 2019

A new year, a new series. Ready to talk teams?

When Wayne Hastings and I began writing our first book, Trust Me, I assumed we would cover all three areas that I focus on, building Teams, Growing Leaders, and creating Cultures—TLC. As we began to work with the publisher, it became obvious that the first book was going to focus on the leadership area. The team and cultures would have to wait their turn to be covered in future books. The good news is that over the years I’ve learned more about what makes great teams work.

A few of the things that I’ve learned about teams include:

  • Hitting the sweet spot of TLC
  • Team is the leading element
  • Being a great leader, functioning as part of a great team and creating great cultures makes you happy!

Hitting the Sweet Spot

When I formed my company in 2000 (I had been in the business for ten years at that point), I wanted to give it a name that described what we did. Reflecting on the previous ten years, one pattern that emerged was that new clients hired me at one of three entry points:

Leadership

I was being asked to help improve the leadership skills of existing or up-and-coming leaders.

Or a slight variation was the young hotshot contributor that the company thought would make a great leader someday but was currently advancing based on some great competency and had not learned the role of being a leader.

Or sometimes I was being asked to help save a derailed leader who had been in the organization for a long time but had gotten off track.

Team building

Team building was the second point of entry into a client. The work wasn’t necessarily related to a leader (at least in their mind), but the team wasn’t performing well.

Many times, these were existing teams where:

  • Productivity had fallen off or never existed.
  • There was a conflict or rift in the team that they couldn’t get past.
  • The team was facing dramatic change they weren’t handling well.

Sometimes they were ad hoc teams where:

  • They were pulled together for a short-term project that needed a quick launch to get productivity levels high as soon as possible.

A side story to that scenario was my first taste of team building when I was a young engineer. My company brought in a consulting firm (HRDA—Human Resource Development Association) to help facilitate communication, understanding, and decision making between ourselves (the constructor) and the design engineers. The process was called “Face-to-Face.”

Both companies had good people. We were all good engineers but weren’t communicating or more importantly, understanding each other. I began to realize that understanding relied more on good relationships and character than it did on competency.

Corporate Culture

My third possible entry point is corporate culture. When I started in the business in the early 1990s, the idea that you had to understand, pay attention to, and mold corporate cultures wasn’t well known, understood, or accepted. By the early 2000s, it had become an accepted fact.

Those seemed to be the solid entry points for me to provide services and add value to all the companies I worked with in those early years of my consulting work—leadership, team building, corporate culture.

Team is the leading element

After ten years I could see that my three entry points were leaders, teams, and cultures. The challenge was what do I name my new company that reflected those points?

Leaders—Teams—Cultures            LTC

Culture—Leaders—Team            CLT

Teams—Culture—Leaders            TCL

Teams—Leaders—Culture            TLC!!

TLC, that was it. Team Leadership Culture, LLC. That was my new company, TLC!

I must admit that I still thought of leadership being at the core and many of my presentations still reflected that belief. But how could I pass on TLC, so that became the name of my company, Team Leadership Culture, LLC.

What’s interesting is that over time, I’ve come to believe that great teams are the essential lead element. I’ve seen more corporate failures caused by the lack of teamwork than either of the other two elements. Great teamwork can overcome mediocre leadership and lack of a good culture, but neither leadership or great culture can overcome a bad team.

TLC is indeed the right sequence.

Happiness

One of my friends is Jim Berlucchi, who is the executive director for The Spitzer Center. Jim introduced me to the four levels of happiness that were described by Aristotle and greatly expanded into a mental model of leadership by Dr. Spitzer.

Aristotle concluded that what makes us uniquely human is our pursuit of happiness. That is why our forefathers included it in the Declaration of Independence.

It seems even more visible when we see the opposite. Despair and depression seem to occur when there is a loss of hope or happiness. If the ability to pursue happiness is lost, depression fills the void.

The pursuit of Happiness has Four Levels

Level 1 drives our basic needs for food, money, and sustenance — anything that relates to the senses. Without level 1, we don’t survive.

Level 2 drives us to win, improve, get better, achieve, grow. Without level 2, we don’t thrive.

Level 3 is focused on providing blessings to others. These are the elements of our book “Trust Me” which provide great leadership.

  • Humility – “I don’t have all the ”
  • Development – “I want us to grow through the ”
  • Focus – “Let’s not get ”
  • Commitment – “We’re looking for the greater ”
  • Compassion – “I care about what you think and who you ”
  • Integrity – “I will not hold back, I will share who I am and what I ”
  • Peacemaking – “We want divergent perceptions leading to ”
  • Endurance – “We will endure to a committed ”

Level 4 is described by Aristotle as

  • Truth
  • Love
  • Purpose
  • Beauty
  • Unity

These become the elements of great teams and deliver the greatest level of happiness.

Over the next several blog posts, we will be exploring each of these “Team” elements in more detail.

The team is the sweet spot. The team is what makes you happier. The team is what provides the greatest value to your organization. A great team will provide the greatest of memories when you think back over your career and lifetime.

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Anyway Love

by Ron Potter April 13, 2017

People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. Love them anyway.

Aristotle uses the word Love as one of the key elements of the highest level of happiness. The Greeks had several words that get transcribed into the English word Love. This one has no emotional connotation to it. It’s more about how you treat people. Treating people with respect, kindness and patience meant you were exhibiting this kind of love.

People are messy. They are illogical, unreasonable and self-centered. At least from our point of view. But we are also illogical, unreasonable and self-centered from their point of view. Guess what, we’re illogical, unreasonable and self-centered. Get over it and get over others being that way. Love them anyway. The more we treat each other with respect, kindness, and patience, especially when it appears we don’t deserve it, the more love we’ll experience.

Love them anyway!

Headlines from a wonderful little book titled Anyway by Kent Keith

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The Three Most Misunderstood Words in Business

by Ron Potter November 17, 2016

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Knowing something is different than knowing the name of something.

Shane Parrish of Farnam Street Blog spoke of this concept from Richard Feynman, the Nobel winning Physicist.

The Feynman Technique formula for learning is based on knowing the difference.  I want to talk about the three words that seem to suffer from this concept.

Humble, Love and Tolerant

Humble

Most people seem to think that being humble is a weakness.  They relate it to being a push over or a doormat.  They think that humble people don’t stand up to the pressure of their own convictions.  Quite the contrary.

The original word for humility is tightly coupled with the word meek (also completely misunderstood).  But the word meek meant tremendous power under complete control.  A humble or meek person has all the power they need to wield; they simply keep it under control so that they can relate to and understand others.

Humility is derived from the Latin word humus meaning grounded.  A humble leader is well grounded, standing firm.

Humility requires leaders to shed all their prejudices and biases and examine who they are and what they have become.  Humility leads to openness, teachability and flexibility.

Love

I know of at least two situations where I have either been asked to use a different word or was asked not to work in a company because “Business is a rough and tumble world with no room for foolish things like love.”  Aristotle speaks of love as being one of the key elements to the highest level of happiness and the framework for great team work.  The Greeks had at least 3 words that translate into our one English world love.  Agape, the word that Aristotle used refers to how we treat other people, not about being emotionally or physically “in love” with them.  How we respect and treat others (boss, peers, direct reports, customers, investors, etc.) has everything to do with business.  Love may be the leading indicator of success in business.

Tolerate

This word is widely used in many situations today and I will assume that people mean well by it.  But in some cases, behavior reflects the true meaning of the word rather than the implied meaning.

The medical definition of tolerate is: “be capable of continued subjection to (a drug, toxin, or environmental condition) without adverse reaction.”  The non-medical definition sends the same signal: “accept or endure (someone or something unpleasant or disliked) with forbearance”

Neither of those definitions is very pleasant and shouldn’t be tolerated.

What we mean to say is have patience.

Once again people assume the word patience means to not hold people accountable.  But the true concept of the word infers calmness, stability and persistent courage in trying circumstances.  It speaks of respect for others when there is disagreement.

Be humble, love one another and have some patience.  Everyone is unique.  Out of that uniqueness can be built great teams.

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One size does not fit all (except maybe in socks)

by Ron Potter October 20, 2016

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Is your fingerprint unique or is it just like everyone else’s?  Without even know you I know what your answer will be.  Why would the FBI keep a database of fingerprints if they were not unique enough to identify every person on the planet?

One of the books I’ve read recently is Idiot Brain by Dean Burnett and one statement in there struck this chord with me.  If we assume and accept the concept that we each have a unique fingerprint that’s simply made up of a few swirls, curves and lines, why would we think that two brains that are infinitely more complex than a fingerprint reach the same conclusion or see things in exactly the same way or start with a common set of beliefs and assumptions.  That’s ridiculous.

We are complex, messy human beings.  Our backgrounds and experiences are all different.  And if we are complex, messy human beings, how much more so is a team of people.

I remember working with one team when the first day of a three-day team building session was a disaster.  I couldn’t sleep at all that night.  All night I kept running through the issues and looking for the cause of their inability to come together as a team.  I would think to myself, they’re smart, they’re experienced, they’re well intentioned, what’s the problem.  Smart, experienced, well intentioned… Smart, experienced, well intentioned…  Finally, about 4am it hit me.  They’re smart!  That was the issue.  For every problem that hit the table, they could almost instantly come up with a list of variables that was overwhelming.  And then, because they were smart, they would be totally convinced that they’re personal view of the issue was the only correct view.  After all, they were smart.

We are complex, messy people who make up even more complex and messy teams.  So how do we cope?

Aristotle in his four levels of happiness describes level 4 (the highest level of happiness) happens when there is Truth, Love, Beauty and Unity.

Truth

In a team we must have great respect for each person’s perspective.  We’re complex, messy people.  Each of us has a perspective that is true as far as we can see.  Honoring the fact that each person has a perspective that should be understood and valued is the first step.

Love

The concept being used today that would most closely parallels what Aristotle was implying is Psychological Safety.  When the team environment is psychologically safe, there is great respect for each other, confrontation of ideas is often and easy, everyone takes responsibility for group decisions, the team talks openly about mistakes and problems, not just successes and above all, there is a lot of humor and laughter.

Beauty

The word used here refers to elegance and simplicity.  Smart people tend to make things more complex.  Wise people tend to simplify.

Unity

After hearing everyone’s perspective on an issue, demonstrating the patience and kindness it takes to fully understand and integrate those perspectives and then simplifying the issue down to the basic core, unity has a much better chance of being accomplished.  Teams that build great unity are the happiest (and most productive).

We’re complex, messy people.  It takes a great process to get at the “truth”, great love to appreciate and understand each person’s perspective, a great effort to simplify things to their most elegant form (a lot more energy and brain power than it does to make things complex) and a great desire to move forward in unity.  But it also provides great happiness.

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Soft Edge

by Ron Potter October 20, 2014

soft edgeRon’s Short Review: Hard skills?  Soft skills? I agree with Karlgaard that the soft skills are both the toughest to conquer and the most powerful in creating great companies.

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What’s Love Got To Do With It?

by Ron Potter August 26, 2009
Image Source: David Goehring, Creative Commons

Image Source: David Goehring, Creative Commons

The Sporting News recently honored UCLA Legend, John Wooden as the greatest coach of all time. Coach Wooden ended his acceptance speech with these words:

“Love is the most important thing in the world.”

While Coach Wooden did indeed love his players, he is known best for building some of the greatest sports team in history. So, what’s love got to do with it? Love is, in fact, the foundation and essential element for building great teams.

Unfortunately, our English language shortchanges the word love. In Greek, there are at least three words that get translated into our word love. Two of these Greek words signify the emotional feelings and affection we might feel for a lover or a brother. However, the third word is an action verb. It’s not about what we feel, it’s about what we do. This is the type of love that coach Wooden was talking about.

Wayne Hastings and I identify seven main elements of this action-oriented love in our new book, Team Trust. They include:

Patience

Kindness

Lack of envy

Humility

Is not rude

Does not anger easily

Keeps no records of wrong

At the heart of the list is humility. This is the same element that begins the list of Trust Me, Developing a Leadership Style That People Will Follow. You can hear it in the words Coach Wooden spoke during his acceptance speech, when he said:

“No one can really honestly be the very best, no one.”

Coach went on to give the glory to his players, saying:

“[The players] are the ones that make the coaches.”

Humble to the very end. Coach Wooden is a very wise 98 years old.

Without humility, none of the other elements of Trust Me or Team Trust have a chance of blossoming. Pride tends to undermine all of the seven attributes listed above.

How can we develop patience when we’re always right?

Kindness, when mixed with pride, comes across as demeaning or patronizing.

Pride is the root of envy and rudeness.

Proud people feel anger when things don’t go their way.

Proud people tend to nurse grudges and keep a record of perceived wrongs.

If you seek greatness, start by taking a humble attitude. You’ll be amazed at how much people will honor you.

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John Wooden – Values, Victory and Peace of Mind

by Ron Potter October 9, 2002

Values, Victory and Peace of MindRon’s Short Review: You’ll find love at the heart of great coach.

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